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Too Late, They Say

There comes a moment — often quiet, often unexpected — when you look up and realize you're starting over.

You’ve raised your family.
You’ve supported your partner.
You’ve shown up for everyone else.

And suddenly, you're alone. The children are grown. The roles have shifted. And somehow, despite all you've done, you're back at square one — only now, you're older.

And the world?
It seems to only have eyes for the young.

Suddenly, people question if you're still capable. As if life experience is something to be ashamed of. As if years of wisdom and skill count for less than being fresh out of school. And even though a part of you knows that’s not true — the world is relentless in reminding you otherwise.

So you start to doubt yourself.

You read the self-help books.
You listen to the TED talks.
You practice gratitude.
You keep going.

And still — you feel behind. Invisible.
You hear your children speak proudly about their accomplishments — and yes, you are proud — but you also know you were the foundation.

You taught.
You nurtured.
You gave.

And yet, when you look around, others your age are slowing down, traveling, enjoying the fruits of their labor — while you’re still hustling, still proving, still climbing.

Strangely, from the outside, you look like you have it all together. And when you finally speak your truth — that you’re tired, scared, doubting — people are shocked. You're not allowed to say those things.

But fear lives in you.
Doubt lives in you.
And still — gratitude lives in you, too.

Because despite everything, you know you’ve been given gifts. Strength. Vision. Purpose.
You just need to stop comparing yourself to a world obsessed with youth.

It’s time we challenge this narrative.

Age does not make you less valuable. It makes you more.
More resilient. More wise. More deeply human.

Stop placing age limits on dreams.
Stop funding only the young.
Stop pretending creativity expires at 35.

Look beyond the spotlights.
Seek out the artists still working in the shadows.
Find the voices that have something real to say.

Today, this was on my heart.
And maybe someone else needed to hear it too.

You’re not too late.
The boat hasn’t sailed.
You are the boat.
Keep going.